Parma has been on my bucket list for twelve months.  Last Christmas, my brother introduced me to the joy of walking tours via YouTube and Parma sparked my interest from the outset.  It appeared to have the same beauty of Bologna (a city I adore) but on a smaller scale, a big tick for me.  Whilst most notably known for good old Parmesan cheese and prosciutto, this little gem of a city has much more to offer than these two delicious foods.

Nestled in the heart of the Emilia-Romagna region, Parma is more than just a city; it's a warm, comforting hug from your Nonna. Picture her: tiny, the embodiment of familiarity, kindness, love, and generosity. Parma welcomes you with open arms, embracing you in its rich cultural heritage, delectable cuisine, and the warmth of its friendly people. As you stroll through the cobblestone streets, you'll discover a city that honours traditions, values connections, and invites you to experience the essence of Italian life.

Let's start with the heart of Italy - the food. Back to Nonna for a moment, imagine her in the kitchen, replicating dishes that have been perfected over the years with the same passion of the generations who came before her.  Parma's culinary scene is like a testament to this.  It is a celebration of techniques and flavours honed over years in the kitchens of the home, yet unafraid to venture into the realms of inventiveness, transformation, and experimentation.  Traditional Parmesan cheese, Prosciutto di Parma, and balsamic vinegar are not just ingredients here; they're revered symbols of the city's gastronomic prowess.  Classical dishes are reinvented to showcase the diversity of these famous ingredients and each bite tells a story of dedication and love for the culinary arts that are synonymous with Italy.

As you explore the beautifully paved streets, you'll quickly realise that the people are as inviting as the food. The locals embody the spirit of Italian hospitality, making you feel like you're part of an extended family. From retail assistants with a genuine eagerness to help, to the café owners recommending their favourite local wines, the friendliness of the people adds an extra layer of warmth to discovering this city.  Don't be surprised if strangers strike up conversations in the streets about what brings you to their city because they have a genuine love for where they live and a shared joy of life. The openness of the people creates an atmosphere where connections are easily forged, turning every interaction into a memorable experience.

Unlike the hustle and bustle of larger cities, Parma has a pace that allows you to savour every moment. The city moves at ease, inviting you to slow down, appreciate the details, and immerse yourself in its charm. The leisurely pace extends to the way people enjoy their meals, with long, languid lunches and dinners that stretch late into the evening.  In Parma, time seems to stand still, allowing you to fully absorb the beauty of your surroundings. As you wander through the picturesque streets, adorned with porticos and pink marble sidewalks reminiscent of nearby Bologna, you'll feel a sense of tranquility. The architecture speaks of history, each building a witness to the passage of time and the evolution of the city.

The day very easily passes as you set out on foot to explore the blend of medieval and Renaissance architecture. The imposing Palazzo della Pilotta stands as a testament to the city's historical significance, housing the National Gallery, the Archaeological Museum, and the Farnese Theatre. Each step through the halls of Palazzo della Pilotta is a journey through time, with masterpieces by Correggio, Parmigianino, and other renowned artists adorning the walls.  The Stendhal Syndrome of Florence extends to the artwork you will see here.  Like me, you will wander for hours, hopefully also open mouthed and in awe of the beauty which is before you.  The National Gallery, also known as the Galleria Nazionale di Parma, is a treasure trove of artistic brilliance. You can lose yourself in Correggio's ethereal frescoes, such as the famous "Assumption of the Virgin," where light seems to beam from the canvas.  Parmigianino's delicate brushstrokes come alive in his masterpiece "Madonna with the Long Neck," captivating observers with its graceful composition.

When living in Australia, religion and in particular religious art never peaked my interest.  Being a twice a year Mass attendee you can say that I am a terrible Catholic.  For me, Mass was something you had to do at least on Christmas and Easter because we all know about Catholic guilt, pair that with Italian blood and it is fair to say guilt is part of my DNA structure.  However, being in Italy where it seems Churches are on every corner, my connection to religion is more important to me now.  Religion is ever present here and serves as a reminder of the faith that this country holds dear.  Perhaps it is also knowing that my time here at the moment is mostly spent on my own and for me, visiting a Church makes me feel a connection to something bigger than little old me.  The many art galleries have an impressive collection of religious artwork and for me, I find every canvas captivating.  I often stand in front of a painting in awe of the talent it takes to visualise this beauty let alone put paintbrush to canvas.  I try to imagine the period in time of which the artist lived.  What their daily life was like? What was their city like?  Who were they at their core?  Suddenly I am being transported back to 1400-1700 and I have so many questions.

Apologies, I digress.  Leaving the palatial surroundings of Palazzo della Pilotta, one meanders through Parma's charming streets, stumbling upon hidden gems that celebrate the city's cultural richness. The Museo Glauco Lombardi, nestled in the heart of the old town, offers a unique perspective on Parma's artistic evolution. Housed in a former convent, the museum showcases a diverse collection ranging from medieval sculptures to contemporary art, offering a diverse look at Parma's cultural range.  For those seeking a more immersive experience, the Teatro Regio di Parma offers a combination of splendid architecture and a repertoire that pays homage to Italy's operatic heritage.

In the midst of Parma's artistic grandeur, the Biblioteca Palatina offers a serene sanctuary for those who wish to delve into the written treasures of the past. Housed within the Palazzo della Pilotta complex, this historic library boasts a vast collection of manuscripts, incunabula, and rare books, and if like me you get a buzz out of the smell of books, you will be in heaven.

Even in December, when a chill fills the air, the city doesn't lose its allure.  As the sun sets, Parma undergoes a magical transformation. The city that was already charming by day becomes enchanting by night. The centro storico, the historical center, comes alive with the glow of streetlights and the hum of lively conversations.  The locals, resilient and embracing of life, gather for post-work aperitivo that spill out into the streets. The outdoor scenes are alive with laughter, clinking glasses, and the rich aroma of local Lambrusco or other red wines that envelop you, providing a warm embrace from within.  Parma's winter charm is a unique experience.  The city, adorned with festive decorations and the lack of crowds, allows you to enjoy the city's beauty at your own pace, creating an atmosphere that feels intimate and inviting.

For me, Parma is a must see destination in Italy.  Yes, by all means do Rome, Florence, Bologna etc but don’t discount the smaller cities that are not on the current TikTok trends - if it were me I’d avoid anything promoted as a must see on that platform like the plague, or COVID (too soon, still raw to mention the dreaded C?).  This city deserves a prime spot on your ‘must see’ locations.  It blends the old and the new, offering a multifaceted experience that appeals to a diverse range of travellers.  Whether you are a history enthusiast, an art lover, a foodie or simply seeking an authentic experience, Parma has something truly extraordinary to offer.  So, as you plan your next Italian adventure, be sure to add it to the itinerary and you too can unlock the door to a world of timeless beauty, culinary delights and genuine connections.